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Where Do I even Begin...

I'm not a writer, just a thinker. I like to share my experience because I'm sure that there are other people who have dealt and or are dealing with the same shit I am. 

I'm a girl from a big city that has her hands in ever bowl you can imagine. 

One of those damn bowls, is the bowel of dating. I hate dating. I hate being single and I hate meeting new people. 

I have come to realize that dating is something that I don't do well. I fail at the idea of choosing a good man.

Who knows what a good man is? Who understands how to choose one?

I will say that I came out of a good relationship that lasted almost 8 years. 

I learned alot. So I Will share as I write, and I Will cry and complain as I write as well.  

Happy reading Folks!

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