I have a tendency of quoting some of the best online bloggers, one happen to be a Sexy Loving Him love yourself first quote, "You have to know who you are before you can fully love another human being."
How true is this? I have no idea. I Think that it might be possible to love someone other than yourself, before yourself. But I would have to talk to those people who are done it.
Moving on...
Lets talk about transforming a long distance relationship into the real thing. I have dated a few people who were half way across the country. Is it easy? Hell no, that's why we aren't together anymore.
Can it be done? Hell yes, I've seen many people make a long distance relationship work. Like my parents. They are the holy grail to making a long distance thing work. People who are in the Military do it all the time.
They also did it..
Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the hardest thing. So lets look at 3 ways you can transform a long distance into a face to face.
During my phase of dating, I wanted to find someone I Could talk to all the time and trust. Trust is a huge issue, and if you can't trust the one you are dating then it's not going to work.
No matter th case, they can be doing any and everything. And that is probably going to happen. You are really going to have to except that you aren't able to control the outcome of this thing, you just have to go along for the ride.
Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the hardest thing. So lets look at 3 ways you can transform a long distance into a face to face.
Honesty is very important and if you aren't willing to be honest with your long distance mate, then don't waste your damn time.
I swear I caught my boyfriend in so many lies before we actually got it together, and he cleaned up his act. But by that time I was so over him, I kicked him to the curb.
Develop a way to communicate with each other and stick to it. Designate talking time that can not be disturbed even if there was a damn fire.
You have to show that you are in it for the long haul.
Everyone needs attention. So giving each other time and attention at least once per day shows that you guys are well on your way to making this a real thing.
Being in a long distance relationship is super hard. I mean super duper hard. You have to share your feelings, you have to be creative. You have to be willing to do all types of things. Such as phone sex, video chat, being romantic without ever being in their face. Most people are lames, and have a hard time being creative with their partner.
Start brainstorming and reading more on how to make a long distance relationship spicy. Like seriously. There are tons of different way you and your partner can be happy.
If you can survive a long distance relationship then you can mostly like survive anything. I, unfortunately didn't survive mine, because my boyfriend sucked majorly.
But I learned a lot from him. Other than the fact that he sucks, I now understand that I don't like long distance anything. I have to see what you are doing and who you are with. I don't have time for the games.
But there are people who think other wise, and believe that long distance is the thing to do. Kudos to them. If you are going to do it, then make sure it's going in your favor.
Don't let an invisible love make you miserable.
How true is this? I have no idea. I Think that it might be possible to love someone other than yourself, before yourself. But I would have to talk to those people who are done it.
Moving on...
Lets talk about transforming a long distance relationship into the real thing. I have dated a few people who were half way across the country. Is it easy? Hell no, that's why we aren't together anymore.
Can it be done? Hell yes, I've seen many people make a long distance relationship work. Like my parents. They are the holy grail to making a long distance thing work. People who are in the Military do it all the time.
They also did it..
Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the hardest thing. So lets look at 3 ways you can transform a long distance into a face to face.
3 Ways to Turn Your Long Distance into a Reality
See for me, when you meet someone online, it's an leery thing. It's easy to fall in love with someone who can tell you anything. And I did that.During my phase of dating, I wanted to find someone I Could talk to all the time and trust. Trust is a huge issue, and if you can't trust the one you are dating then it's not going to work.
No matter th case, they can be doing any and everything. And that is probably going to happen. You are really going to have to except that you aren't able to control the outcome of this thing, you just have to go along for the ride.
Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the hardest thing. So lets look at 3 ways you can transform a long distance into a face to face.
- Communicate as much as you can
Honesty is very important and if you aren't willing to be honest with your long distance mate, then don't waste your damn time.
I swear I caught my boyfriend in so many lies before we actually got it together, and he cleaned up his act. But by that time I was so over him, I kicked him to the curb.
Develop a way to communicate with each other and stick to it. Designate talking time that can not be disturbed even if there was a damn fire.
You have to show that you are in it for the long haul.
- Everyday is Important
Everyone needs attention. So giving each other time and attention at least once per day shows that you guys are well on your way to making this a real thing.
- Share, Share, Share
Being in a long distance relationship is super hard. I mean super duper hard. You have to share your feelings, you have to be creative. You have to be willing to do all types of things. Such as phone sex, video chat, being romantic without ever being in their face. Most people are lames, and have a hard time being creative with their partner.
Start brainstorming and reading more on how to make a long distance relationship spicy. Like seriously. There are tons of different way you and your partner can be happy.
If you can survive a long distance relationship then you can mostly like survive anything. I, unfortunately didn't survive mine, because my boyfriend sucked majorly.
But I learned a lot from him. Other than the fact that he sucks, I now understand that I don't like long distance anything. I have to see what you are doing and who you are with. I don't have time for the games.
But there are people who think other wise, and believe that long distance is the thing to do. Kudos to them. If you are going to do it, then make sure it's going in your favor.
Don't let an invisible love make you miserable.
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