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When it's Not Working What do You Do?






Lets cope with it. Lets talk it out. Lets be the one to handle things like adults. These are all the things that you want to say to your partner, but the idiot is just not budging. Part of you wants to talk it out, while the other part just wants to walk away.

What happens when the communication is turned off, and the animosity is turned up on high? Do you give up? Do you call it quits, or do you fight through.

The only way you will know when it's time to give up, is if you aren't willing to fight for that person any more. If you no longer want to give it your all, and you find yourself not caring if they walk away; then it's time to let it go.

Every couple goes through rough patches. It happens. And sometimes It's just good to take a time out from eachother. But at the same time, you have to be willing to talk it through especially if your relationship is special to you.

Only you know if it's worth fighting for. Only you know if what you have is worth the effort. Just make sure you aren't giving up on someone who is really meant to be your lifelong partner. Some people tend to give up because they are too lazy too fight.

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