About Me

Where Do I even Begin...

I'm not a writer, just a thinker. I like to share my experience because I'm sure that there are other people who have dealt and or are dealing with the same shit I am.

I'm a girl from a big city that has her hands in ever bowl you can imagine.

One of those damn bowls, is the bowel of dating. I hate dating. I hate being single and I hate meeting new people.

I have come to realize that dating is something that I don't do well. I fail at the idea of choosing a good man.

Who knows what a good man is? Who understands how to choose one?

I will say that I came out of a good relationship that lasted almost 8 years.

I learned alot. So I Will share as I write, and I Will cry and complain as I write as well.

Happy reading Folks!

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Why People Cheat

I remember when my ugly ass boyfriend cheated on me, I thought I would die. I thought that life was over for me. I could see the white light. I knew that it was the end for me. Until I realized that he was nothing more than an idiot. I realized that he didn't offer me much of anything. And that was enough for me to say goodbye and good ridden. I didn't need to hold on to anything that was going to bring me down, and not lift me up. I needed to love myself enough to know that he was the loser in this situation, not me. I think for most of us, we tend to hold on because we are afraid to start over. Or we don't want to be alone. Freak that. So you would rather be unhappy then be single? That is stupid. Never let another human being dictate your happiness. They are nothing more than another human being. Allow yourself room to be happy. To be joyful and find someone that isn't going to cheat on you every time they turn around. There are people who are more than w...

Why Don't We Write Love Letters Anymore?

I wondered to myself why don't we write love letters anymore. Like everything is written through a text message or Social media, but never through pen and paper. Does that bother any of you that no one believe in writing letters anymore? I remember the time when my boyfriend used to send me letters at school and through the mail. It was tangible and I could keep them in a safe place to read over and over again. Now I have to hope and pray that my phone doesn't love any of my messages, or my social account doesn't go down, because guess what? ALL MY LOVE IS STORED ON A DEVICE OR WEBSITE. I might not be that old, and I might not be that young. But I truly believe that some things should never die. If you ever wanted to be romantic with your partner and had no idea where to start, I'm going to be the one to tell you that you need to focus your attention writing love letters. Don't make it just a one time thing, make it a consistent thing that you contin...

Turning you Long Distance Relationship into the Real Deal

I have a tendency of quoting some of the best online bloggers, one happen to be a Sexy Loving Him love yourself first quote, "You have to know who you are before you can fully love another human being." How true is this? I have no idea. I Think that it might be possible to love someone other than yourself, before yourself. But I would have to talk to those people who are done it. Moving on... Lets talk about transforming a long distance relationship into the real thing. I have dated a few people who were half way across the country. Is it easy? Hell no, that's why we aren't together anymore. Can it be done? Hell yes, I've seen many people make a long distance relationship work. Like my parents. They are the holy grail to making a long distance thing work. People who are in the Military do it all the time. They also did it.. Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the harde...

Loving Yourself To Greatness

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