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He Won't talk to Me, So Now What?

This is a classic case of," why won't my man talk to me". There are so many reasons why your man won't talk to you. Some may be because of you, while others is all about him. Either way you need to find out what the reason is so that it can be corrected. And the only way to find out why he won't communicate with you is by ASKING. It's not about what you ask, it's about how you ask. Make sure that you are asking in a kind and gentle way. Make sure that what you are asking isn't coming off combative. The moment you begin throwing combative questions his way is the moment he shuts completely down.

When it's Not Working What do You Do?

Lets cope with it. Lets talk it out. Lets be the one to handle things like adults. These are all the things that you want to say to your partner, but the idiot is just not budging. Part of you wants to talk it out, while the other part just wants to walk away. What happens when the communication is turned off, and the animosity is turned up on high? Do you give up? Do you call it quits, or do you fight through. The only way you will know when it's time to give up, is if you aren't willing to fight for that person any more. If you no longer want to give it your all, and you find yourself not caring if they walk away; then it's time to let it go. Every couple goes through rough patches. It happens. And sometimes It's just good to take a time out from eachother. But at the same time, you have to be willing to talk it through especially if your relationship is special to you. Only you know if it's worth fighting for. Only you know if what you have is wort...

10 Amazing Ways to Make Your Relationship Better Than Theirs

In essence of all things relationship. I wanted to share something that couples should keep in mind when chasing after that amazing relationship. There are rules to this game. And if you can't follow them you will fail at loving your partner. Once people understand that a relationship is like a second job, they then will realize how to attack it to make it work.

Elite Singles Shows What a Monster Date Looks Like

Oh man, I've been on some serious monster dates in my time. I Can't explain to you the crazies that exist in this world. I know people say that everyone needs someone to love, but there are just some people who need to be by themselves. Lets take a look at some monster dates you should watch out for. From Visually .

Show Your Partner You Still Give a Damn

There are a millions ways to show someone that you love them. Choose one.  I will share at least five ways you can tell you partner you still love them and let them know you are still interested in what they have to offer. Show Them You Still Give a Damn Candle delight- Put in a little effort. Learn how to set the mood. Women love candles, men love to be pampered. A candle has never hurt no body. Choose a night where you can place some candles all over the room, or even at dinner. And have a conversation. Better yet, have sex. Food- Although old fashioned, a way to anyone's heart is through food. Who doesn't like food?I know food makes me happy. Cook a delighful dinner for two. Matter of face cook your partner's favorite food. Make sure that they know it's all about them. Love letters- Writing is so out of style these days. Who writes love letters? Everything is technology. But I think that putting in effort to write a love letter says it all. Its a great ...

I'm Not Sure How I feel about Loving Yourself Over Others

There is a statement that my friends use to tell me after every single break, and that was that I had to learn how to really self love to be sexy loving him. Whatever that means ... This is what I thought before I actually sat down and thought to myself that maybe they are right. Maybe I need to really think about adjusting how I view myself. I need to look at how I put others before me but end up getting hurt in the end. I have a huge heart. And with that I tend to allow people to do what they want because I don't want to upset anyone. I have come to learn that that isn't a good route to go. I needed to learn how to become better for myself and started with learning to really love who I was as a person. I needed to better understand myself and learn what made me happy. I also had to learn how to say no when I didn't want to do something. I had to figure out a way to become stronger despite all of my failures . There comes a time when you have to sit down a...

Turning you Long Distance Relationship into the Real Deal

I have a tendency of quoting some of the best online bloggers, one happen to be a Sexy Loving Him love yourself first quote, "You have to know who you are before you can fully love another human being." How true is this? I have no idea. I Think that it might be possible to love someone other than yourself, before yourself. But I would have to talk to those people who are done it. Moving on... Lets talk about transforming a long distance relationship into the real thing. I have dated a few people who were half way across the country. Is it easy? Hell no, that's why we aren't together anymore. Can it be done? Hell yes, I've seen many people make a long distance relationship work. Like my parents. They are the holy grail to making a long distance thing work. People who are in the Military do it all the time. They also did it.. Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the harde...