Loving Yourself To Greatness

I remember when my ugly ass boyfriend cheated on me, I thought I would die. I thought that life was over for me. I could see the white light. I knew that it was the end for me. Until I realized that he was nothing more than an idiot. I realized that he didn't offer me much of anything. And that was enough for me to say goodbye and good ridden. I didn't need to hold on to anything that was going to bring me down, and not lift me up. I needed to love myself enough to know that he was the loser in this situation, not me. I think for most of us, we tend to hold on because we are afraid to start over. Or we don't want to be alone. Freak that. So you would rather be unhappy then be single? That is stupid. Never let another human being dictate your happiness. They are nothing more than another human being. Allow yourself room to be happy. To be joyful and find someone that isn't going to cheat on you every time they turn around. There are people who are more than w...

I've never been someone that believed in soulmates. Maybe I'm just someone who is old and has no clue about love. Or maybe I'm just someone who has been heart broken so many times that I'm bitter. Either way, I think that soulmates don't exist, or do they? This is something that I used to think until I looked back on the one that got away. I think my soulmate was a past boyfriend of mine who I onced love. Does a soulmate actually stick around. Or can you lose them along the way. I think most people think that soulmates are people who stay forever. I don't think that is the case. I think that your soulmate is someone you connect with on a level deeper than surface. I think soulmates are people who understand you better than yourself. I think that soulmates might be the people who love you deeper than the deepest ocean. That type of love doesn't come along often, so when it does; make sure that you hold on to it. Don't be afraid to love back ...

Lets never forget just how sexy telling the truth is. Most people run towards a lie rather than away. But I think that telling someone the truth is much more hot. I mean beind honest means that you aren't a punk. It means that you aren't weak, you know how to stand in your truth and deal with the consequences. It means that you love me enough to allow me the ability to choose and decide what I want to do when it comes to how I wish to handle things. Tell the truth, it makes you so much cuter.

So here we are. We are deciding that we want to go ahead and kill the relationship. I have come to the decision in my mind that I no longer want to deal with his bullshit. I don't want to be his girl any more. And I would rather date a dog before I continue being with him. This is something alot of women go through. Ultimately if you are ready to call it quits, then do that. Don't let it linger, don't allow him to stick around if you aren't happy any longer. Many people tend to let things sit and marinate for far too long before they actually make a decision. I think all that does is make things worse. If it's time to break up then it's time to break up. I'm not sure why this video was created. But they talk about breaking up while still in love. This is super weird because if you are in love then why are you breaking up? But as an outsider, I guess there are things that I just don't fully understand about love. So I'm going to let you g...

I wondered to myself why don't we write love letters anymore. Like everything is written through a text message or Social media, but never through pen and paper. Does that bother any of you that no one believe in writing letters anymore? I remember the time when my boyfriend used to send me letters at school and through the mail. It was tangible and I could keep them in a safe place to read over and over again. Now I have to hope and pray that my phone doesn't love any of my messages, or my social account doesn't go down, because guess what? ALL MY LOVE IS STORED ON A DEVICE OR WEBSITE. I might not be that old, and I might not be that young. But I truly believe that some things should never die. If you ever wanted to be romantic with your partner and had no idea where to start, I'm going to be the one to tell you that you need to focus your attention writing love letters. Don't make it just a one time thing, make it a consistent thing that you contin...

I'm confused at why people think it's cool that woman can go on a dating app with no age, pic or information. Where is that fair? It's like going on a date with an invisible party. They have to do better than this. I mean the way the world is now, there is no way someone is going to want to use this app to find their next date. And if so, they are just idiots, who enjoy gambling with their lives.  This entire idea is whack as hell.

This is a classic case of," why won't my man talk to me". There are so many reasons why your man won't talk to you. Some may be because of you, while others is all about him. Either way you need to find out what the reason is so that it can be corrected. And the only way to find out why he won't communicate with you is by ASKING. It's not about what you ask, it's about how you ask. Make sure that you are asking in a kind and gentle way. Make sure that what you are asking isn't coming off combative. The moment you begin throwing combative questions his way is the moment he shuts completely down.

Lets cope with it. Lets talk it out. Lets be the one to handle things like adults. These are all the things that you want to say to your partner, but the idiot is just not budging. Part of you wants to talk it out, while the other part just wants to walk away. What happens when the communication is turned off, and the animosity is turned up on high? Do you give up? Do you call it quits, or do you fight through. The only way you will know when it's time to give up, is if you aren't willing to fight for that person any more. If you no longer want to give it your all, and you find yourself not caring if they walk away; then it's time to let it go. Every couple goes through rough patches. It happens. And sometimes It's just good to take a time out from eachother. But at the same time, you have to be willing to talk it through especially if your relationship is special to you. Only you know if it's worth fighting for. Only you know if what you have is wort...

In essence of all things relationship. I wanted to share something that couples should keep in mind when chasing after that amazing relationship. There are rules to this game. And if you can't follow them you will fail at loving your partner. Once people understand that a relationship is like a second job, they then will realize how to attack it to make it work.

Oh man, I've been on some serious monster dates in my time. I Can't explain to you the crazies that exist in this world. I know people say that everyone needs someone to love, but there are just some people who need to be by themselves. Lets take a look at some monster dates you should watch out for. From Visually .

There are a millions ways to show someone that you love them. Choose one.  I will share at least five ways you can tell you partner you still love them and let them know you are still interested in what they have to offer. Show Them You Still Give a Damn Candle delight- Put in a little effort. Learn how to set the mood. Women love candles, men love to be pampered. A candle has never hurt no body. Choose a night where you can place some candles all over the room, or even at dinner. And have a conversation. Better yet, have sex. Food- Although old fashioned, a way to anyone's heart is through food. Who doesn't like food?I know food makes me happy. Cook a delighful dinner for two. Matter of face cook your partner's favorite food. Make sure that they know it's all about them. Love letters- Writing is so out of style these days. Who writes love letters? Everything is technology. But I think that putting in effort to write a love letter says it all. Its a great ...

There is a statement that my friends use to tell me after every single break, and that was that I had to learn how to really self love to be sexy loving him. Whatever that means ... This is what I thought before I actually sat down and thought to myself that maybe they are right. Maybe I need to really think about adjusting how I view myself. I need to look at how I put others before me but end up getting hurt in the end. I have a huge heart. And with that I tend to allow people to do what they want because I don't want to upset anyone. I have come to learn that that isn't a good route to go. I needed to learn how to become better for myself and started with learning to really love who I was as a person. I needed to better understand myself and learn what made me happy. I also had to learn how to say no when I didn't want to do something. I had to figure out a way to become stronger despite all of my failures . There comes a time when you have to sit down a...

I have a tendency of quoting some of the best online bloggers, one happen to be a Sexy Loving Him love yourself first quote, "You have to know who you are before you can fully love another human being." How true is this? I have no idea. I Think that it might be possible to love someone other than yourself, before yourself. But I would have to talk to those people who are done it. Moving on... Lets talk about transforming a long distance relationship into the real thing. I have dated a few people who were half way across the country. Is it easy? Hell no, that's why we aren't together anymore. Can it be done? Hell yes, I've seen many people make a long distance relationship work. Like my parents. They are the holy grail to making a long distance thing work. People who are in the Military do it all the time. They also did it.. Further more, I think the transition from being in a long distance relationship and turning it into the real thing is the harde...

This is a really funny subject matter because ultimately if you aren't really in like with yourself then how can you get a woman to fall in love with you? My brother is the dumbest one in the family when it comes to dating and girls. I'm his coach, why I don't know. I can't even get my own man. But hell if I can help him at least get laid, then why not. There are a few things that you can do as a guy who has no clue. If you want a woman to be all over you like white on rice, then lets talk about what you need to do to make that happen. 5 Ways to Make Her Want You   One of the things men get misconstrued is the fact that they believe having a nice car, and materials is what gets them the girl. WRONG! Name brand items, money and cars don't get the girl. They get the slut. There is an avenue in which you want to walk down to better understand how to get the girl you want to fall all over you. It's really that simple, I Swear. And most people make...

Matthew Hussey Talks about 6 Ways you can kill a relationship.Most people have no clue that some behaviors have a way of killing a relationship and or marriage. I think that self awareness is important and should be done by everyone who is either in a relationship or just wanting to become better. If You are in a relationship with someone that doesn't seem to be going right. It might be time to access the situation and figure out who the problem is. Take a look at this video to find out the 6 Ways to kill a relationship

Let me be the one to tell you that when it comes to cheating I am the person to call on. I can be your investigator. I can be your roll dawg when it comes to finding out if your partner is up to no good. Although I'm an advocate of violence. I do believe that you have the right to be informed about what is happening in your relationship. Cheating is something that can ruin anyones heart, whether you are married or in a relationship. It's a sign of betrayal. And I think that people fail to realize that when you do something so ugly, you tear a person down. I have been cheated on and I reacted in a manner that got me locked up. I was hurt and I was angry. I Think that being honest should be the way to go. If you no longer want to be with me then why not just say so. Why not just tell me that it's not working out instead of making me believe other wise? Cheating has a pain of it's own. It can create such a monster within you that you can't recognize who you are...